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Overview: Marriage & Family Life

Christ chose to be born and grow up in the bosom of the holy family of Joseph and Mary.. The Church is nothing other than "the family of God." From the beginning, the core of the Church was often constituted by those who had become believers "together with all [their] household." When they were converted, they desired that "their whole household" should also be saved. These families who became believers were islands of Christian life in an unbelieving world.In our own time, in a world often alien and even hostile to faith, believing families are of primary importance as centres of living, radiant faith. For this reason the Second Vatican Council, using an ancient expression, calls the family the ecclesia domestica (domestic church). It is in the bosom of the family that parents are "by word and example . . . the first heralds of the faith with regard to their children. They should encourage them in the vocation which is proper to each child, fostering with special care any religious vocation.” It is here that the father, the mother, children, and all members of the family exercise the priesthood of the baptized in a privileged way "by the reception of the sacraments, prayer and thanksgiving, the witness of a holy life, and self-denial and active charity." Thus the home is the first school of Christian life and "a school for human enrichment." Here one learns endurance and the joy of work, fraternal love, generous - even repeated - forgiveness, and above all divine worship in prayer and the offering of one's life. We must also remember the great number of single persons who, because of the particular circumstances in which they have to live - often not of their choosing - are especially close to Jesus' heart and therefore deserve the special affection and active solicitude of the Church, especially of pastors. Many remain without a human family often due to conditions of poverty. Some live their situation in the spirit of the Beatitudes, serving God and neighbour in exemplary fashion. the doors of homes, the "domestic churches," and of the great family which is the Church must be open to all of them. "No one is without a family in this world: the Church is a home and family for everyone, especially those who 'labour and are heavy laden.'"(Catechism of the Catholic Church)More Information: 
  • COLF (Catholic Organization for Life and Family): A Threatened Solidarity and Parents, will your children be happy?
  • COLF has issued a new message to families on work, entitled “work + love = holiness!”  As the world progressively overcomes a serious economic crisis, the Catholic Organization for Life and Family offers an important reflection on the grandeur and dignity of work. Go to to download a pdf copy or to order printed copies.
  • Catholic Organization for Life and Family (co-founded by the Canadian Conference of Catholic Bishops and the Knights of Columbus.) 
  • Marriage in Canada: CCCB and COLF statements, briefs, comments and other backgrounders.
  • Catholic Organization for Life and Family,   2500 Don Reid Drive, Ottawa, ON K2J 2W5,  Tel: 613-241-9461 ext. 161 Fax: 613-241-9461 
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Diocesan Information:

  • Resource for engaged couples:  Engaged Encounter
  • Enrichment Resource for married couples: Worldwide Marriage Encounter
  • Resource for troubled marriages: Retrouvaille
  • Other resources to enrich Christian family life in various areas of the Diocese include Cursillo, Focolare, Okanagan Fertility Care. 
  • Immaculate Conception Parish, Kelowna has established Family Life resources, including a Family Camp, Small Talk (a group for young moms), as well as periodic family gatherings.  Contact Immaculate Conception Parish Office for more information: 250-762-3910 or check 
  • St. Charles Garnier Parish, Kelowa offers a Marriage preparation program for couples in the Kelowna area preparing for church marriages.  Check:
  • Resources for family life not yet established in the Diocese but which are being explored include Couples for Christ and Familia
  • For more information, contact the pastor of your parish or mission.
“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you”
(John 15.12)
“We affirm that marriage is a unique and exclusive public commitment between a man and a woman whose love overflows in fruitfulness, and ultimately brings children into the world…“We believe that the transmission of marital love from generation to generation, communicated a thousand times over from one couple to another, from one family to another, is indisputable evidence of the greatness and grace of marriage. It deserves the support and protection of society and the Church.”
(Canadian Conference of Catholic Bishops)